Author: Alexandra

  • Round up of Thrift 36.25

    Round up of Thrift 36.25

    thought i would bring this column back, seeing as i’m making frugal decisions one after another and not even bragging about it anywhere on the internet. this must change.

    Roundup of Thrift was a monthly post on one of the previous iterations of this blog. I am not sure if there are any posts in the trimmed archives. If there are, they will pop up in related posts somewhere eventually. I talk about all the thrifty choices I made during the days prior. There are repeats – because if I made a frugal choice in May, it doesn’t mean that I kept making that same choice all the way through September. There may also be backtracks – some things may not work out for me after all.

    Sometimes I’m the queen of reducing, reusing, and recycling – other times the frugality episodes may seem laughable for how tame they are. Such is life. It’s easier to make frugal choices when you’re not spiraling. After all my main preoccupation most days is existing within society and not letting the mask of civility slip. *eye twitch*

    Without further ado.

    1. I had a plethora of no spend days. Can’t say they were voluntary – there’s been some trouble with my hard earned money making its way into my bank account – but the result is the same either way. A list of expenses avoided.

    2. When I had money, I didn’t rely on grocery deliveries. I actually crawled out into the world, hissing softly at passersby, and made it to the den of fluorescent sin, otherwise known as the supermarket. That saved me delivery fees and courier tips. Plus the supermarket I shop at without delivery is cheaper than the one that delivers.

    3. I made sure to bring my reusable shopper bags.

    4. I cancelled many subscriptions. Spotify is gone. Audible is gone. A transcript service I no longer need is gone. Canva is paused. HBO Max is cancelled.

    5. I also made a list of renewal dates for all the services currently in use. Some of them are yearly. Others are monthly but have a cancellation fee if I cancel the sub in the middle of the cycle (looking at you, Adobe). That way, if I don’t cancel the things, I am at least aware when they will be charged, which hopefully means I will plan better.

    6. I started budgeting again. There’s been a couple months break because budgeting seemed impossible. It still is to a degree – I have some highly variable non-cancellable emotionally loaded expenses. But I decided it was time to look at the numbers again, even if I can’t control some of them.

    7. My cooking these days is heavily based on the contents of my pantry, freezer, and fridge. That’s not fully voluntary – please see the above ‘no spend’ point. But it is indeed fully frugal.

    8. Minimal food waste – 1/3 of a fish preserve and 1/3 of a can of beans, 1 medium tomato, and 5 cherry tomatoes.

    9. No more coffee capsules for now.

    10. August was also the second month where I haven’t spent a single cent on gaming. It’s not a huge chunk of money reclaimed, but it’s something. Also no books were bought. No beauty products. No clothes or shiny things. I think the only relatively fun expense this month was a tasty beverage and a slice of cake.

  • thinking about notebooks again

    thinking about notebooks again

    not long ago i wrote about my journalling system, if it can be called that. it’s still pretty much the same setup, but i’ve been heavily inclined to return to my simple two-three notebook system that i had for an age before i decided that the answer lay in keeping a separate journal for everything.

    what i used to have were daily notebooks, very much the ‘dear diary’, with a side of did that, went there. and i had a tetradochka – directly translated to little notebook, think cuadernito if you speak spanish. that shit housed everything. it was a work scratchpad, it was random thoughts i had whilst parking my car, it had notes on business, projects, reviews of restaurant dishes, doodles, drawings, sketches, todo lists, commonplace, vocab, uni assignments, meeting minutes, etc., etc., etc. the sole reason tetradochkas existed outside of the ‘dear diary’ was because i didn’t want to lug my actual diary around – which used to be way more personal than it is now, oddly enough – only to forget it at an investment banker’s office. it’s not to say that tetradochkas weren’t personal, but they were so messy and full of to-do lists that it would be hard to discern the soulful side of it all.

    i don’t abandon notebooks, so i’ll be finishing every single one that i have going on right now, but i think i will softly begin combining everything into two or three notebooks again. so far the only thing i know i’ll keep separate is my recipe notebook. not that i’m such a prolific cook that it is warranted, but i just want to have these notes in one book that i can quickly take to the kitchen if necessary.

    another candidate for staying unchanged is my panning notebook – again, for the sole convenience of always keeping it on my vanity.

    everything else is fair game.

    book journalling is a big question in my head, because i know part of me wants to keep a separate record of all the books i read. but the journalling part of it seems to happen mostly in my main big book of everything anyway.

    that’s the main reason for it, i think. it all mingles and colludes anyway. keeping a separate book for everything breaks my flow, if there is any.

    the first notebook to be absorbed by my Big Neurodivergent Book of Everything is going to be my morning pages. i know there exists a theory that morning pages need to be separate from everything, but if it’s noise that’s the defining factor behind this theory, then, well, the noise is not going anywhere. the noise is here to stay, no matter how many morning pages i do. so i’ll just merge it into my main book, and see where that takes me.

    i’m not sure what the second book will be, but i have an inkling that the last one is going to be my book journal. the reason for that is purely material – i bought a separate templated ‘reader’s journal’ type notebook some two years ago, and i’ve yet to get to it. once i do, i might keep a separate log, with a page of monthly stats between all the book entries, while everything else – notes, quotes, commonplace – will get reabsorbed by either the daily or the tetradochki.

  • Demon Slayer, Chicken Nuggets, Brain Fog | Weekly 35.25

    Demon Slayer, Chicken Nuggets, Brain Fog | Weekly 35.25

    The inaugural Weekly is probably a little wordier than I meant it to be. The forthcoming ones will probably be shorter. Less paragraphs, more bullet points. Unless I’m unnecessary verbose, as I seem to be this week. I did take a long while to write it, though. Which is also not my intention.

    Right, then. This is what I managed to gather through the brain fog.

    Life

    This month my work life received yet another trauma facet, so all I wanted to do was rot in my bed, full goblin mode. Or, you know, be consumed by moss. But I’ve got promises to keep, cats to feed, etc., etc., so I’ll dust myself off and go on. I suppose my saving grace has been having the house fully to myself for the past week. I hope this goes on for at least another 10 days or so. Don’t really do well with people when I’m overwhelmed.

    I’ve also been resisting the urge to get chicken mcnuggets delivered to my doorstep. I have so far resisted this urge by getting frozen nuggets at the supermarket, but alas. still wanting the mcdonalds thing. i will continue resisting though. not really a big fan of parting with my money at mcdonalds.

    Books

    • Continued:  The Sweet Oblivion by Danielle Lori. High time I finished it, too – been stalling on 3rd act breakup for a little too long. Not in Love by Ali Hazelwood. I’m not a Hazelwood stan by any means, but this is a damn good book. So far, at least.
    • Picked up: nothing, to be honest. I am traipsing dangerously close to a reading slump.
    • Finished: Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman. I enjoyed it more than I thought I would. The Autistic Brain by Temple Grandin. I read this with my friend for our two person book club.
    • Bedside table limbo: Fever Pitch, The Secret, Madame Bovary, 50 Short Stories.
    • Next week: I want to get to my last TBR of this summer, so I will be focussing on that.

    Making

    I’ve been working on my Patreon and Kofi. Finally solidified Patreon tiers (content is the same across all of them, I just wanted cute names and finally found ’em), and now I’m working on consistency across all platforms. I’m also slowly inching towards opening an ephemera shop. I will use my Kofi page for the listings – already have Tarot readings open there, so this will be another subcategory. I’ve no idea why I’m stalling on these ephemera packs. Perfectionism, I guess. The only way to beat it is to just list a couple of things already, so mystery packs here I come. I am also having these thoughts on doing blog/vlogtember and blog/vlogtober, but with my ADHD it’s like if I give myself the instruction to do it, my brain will do everything possible to prevent it. So we’ll see.

    Watching

    I’m on the second season of Demon Slayer: Kimetsu no Yaiba. Last time I dropped it on S1E11, and decided to give the first ten eps a rewatch. It was better than I remember. I still can’t get over Muzan’s initial appearance (IYKYK), but this time around the storyline gripped me, and wouldn’t let go.

    I also watched Red Notice and The Mother. Both of these are precisely the type of movie I enjoy – I watch movies solely to be entertained, and seldom venture outside of my preferred genre of action flicks and true crime. Feel free to fight me on this, but Red Notice was arguably worse than The Mother. Much worse. Still entertaining, though.

    Links & Things

    so as i was watching episodes with Urokodaki in Demon Slayer, I wondered: why are there stones on the roof of his house? Here’s the answer if you want it.

    some works of Kurt Hutton, a pioneer of photojournalism.

    madsunelia

    Next Week

    It seems that all my mind has been circling around lately is content consistency. I hope I can live up to at least some of my expectations. Will I finally get over myself and post one preset or ephemera pack to my Kofi? Lord knows. I also want to film a reading wrap-up and a TBR for September, and that last tbr of this summer also needs posting. And since as of September 1 I am going to be without a day job – i.e. without gainful employment – I think I might also film a ‘reading like it’s my job’ kind of week – i.e. me joyfully reading 8 hours per day, 40 hours per week.